Our worship service is like a family meal where we sit together and are served by the life-giving Creator God. Because we are a diverse group of people, we also must serve each other by holding onto our loves and preferences loosely to make space for the loves and preferences of others; we must seek to serve each other before we serve ourselves (Romans 12:9-13; Philippians 2:1-4). When worshippers willingly forego personal preferences in order to make room for each other, God expands our hearts and reinforces our unity.